Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Today is a World’s First Day.
The last time I posted
about this topic,
we had just been told
my little nephew would later be
 diagnosed with cerebral palsy.
Later has come and gone…
We have an official diagnosis.
Our Little Man could sit back
and complain that some of his
 brain messages don’t get
to the areas of his body
they should.
His gorgeous eyes don’t always
 pass on the images
of the beautiful things they see.
 His neck sometimes forgets
to hold his head up high
and sometimes, his little fingers
 curl in to fists.
 He’s learning so much,
but in his own time.
He’s an inspiration:
 his effort…
his determination…
 his patience…
 his happiness.
People could sit back and complain. 
They could whinge
and become frustrated
(which he sometimes does!).
 They could be dragged down
 by their misfortune.
World Cerebral Palsy Day
is giving people a chance
to make things better.
Around 17 million people,
living with cerebral palsy,
are being given the chance
to make their world better…
Or, at least, to suggest
what they would need
 to make their life easier.
Ideas will go on the
World Cerebral Palsy webpage.
Everyone can check the ideas out
 and vote on the concepts
they think will have the most
impact on improving their life.
At the end of September,
a panel will choose the best ideas,
 solutions and inventions…
In November, people will be
 invited to go on-line and suggest
 how these ideas
could be turned into realities.
From December,
the submissions will be reviewed…
And, the best thing…
The products
(currently just wishful thinking!)
will be launched this time next year
– on the 2nd
What an incredible idea!
Check out the ideas here.

Saturday, September 1, 2012

Let the Games Begin


The Paralympics
are being held right now.
 
 
Greg Smith led our athletes
 out at the 2012 Opening Ceremony.
 
Australia is winning so many medals…
 But, after the media frenzy
of the “able-bodied” Olympics,
many people seem to lose interest
in what’s happening
with the Paralympics. 
Seems unfair. 
Already, our Paralympians
have won 7 gold medals!
We’ve also won 4 silver medals
 and 8 bronze medals!
Third place in the medal tally
 is impressive…
Our athletes are doing
an incredible job!
includes 161 athletes
and for about half of them,
this will be their first Olympic Games.
The Paralympic Games
are not “new” for all our athletes…
 London will be the 11th
Paralympic games for Libby Kosmala,
 who represents Australia in shooting.
  11 games!
That is real dedication
and determination!
Our team will be competing
against over 4200 athletes,
from 165 countries.
There is a bit of pressure
on our team…
high standards…
Since 1996, Australia has
 consistently ranked
in the top five countries
 in the medal tally.
So far, it seems
these amazing Aussies
 will be able to stay in
the top five again these games.
 
  Good luck!
Keep up to date: 
Australian Paralympic Team
 
 


Pick Your Battles...


 

Saturdays are meant for sleep ins…
lazy, cosy, peaceful sleep ins!
So, I’m wondering why I am awake…
And why my mind woke up
at half past two. 
For a while, my body
fought for sleep…
I twisted and turned and
rolled over and over and over…
I kicked off blankets
and pulled blankets back up…
 But still, my mind was awake.

I switched on the light
and tried to tire my mind
with some intellectual activity…
 and thought I had won
as I switched the light back off
and snuggled back
into the warmth of the bed.
 But, no. 
 My mind was still awake. 
 Part of my mind was now
calculating the time
and becoming increasingly frustrated
with the other,
wide-awake part of my mind.

More tossing…
more turning…
more restless attempts
at peaceful slumber…

But, no. 
My mind is awake.
  So, I’m calling it morning
– though, at almost five o’clock,
 a load of washing on
and the computer keeping
my awake mind busy,
I’ve not yet given in
to the idea of my first
Saturday morning coffee.
(I am still ignorantly hopeful
 that I may fall into
another peaceful slumber!)
 The birds will be awake soon
– those gorgeous, brightly coloured
 Australian birds that screech their joy
 as the sun rises each day…
before the sun even rises!

Maybe, this morning…
I should go outside
and join the singing birds
as they welcome in another day… 
 
Oh, my neighbours would love me!
 

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Bear Cottage



A place I never,
ever want to visit.
(But I’m so glad
Bear Cottage exists!)
BearCottage opened in 2001,
on St Patrick’s Day. 
The idea of the cottage came
from Drs John Yu
and Michael Stevens,
 after they heard of similar places
 in the UK.
Bear Cottage is a
palliative care unit…
 for kids.
Kids who may not live
to see their next birthday. 
Kids who are fighting
a losing battle…
 Kids who may never go home.


Inside the cottage,
kids get the medical care
they need and parents get
the assistance they need.
They live in a Manly cottage,
by the sea,
and every attempt is made
 to bring enjoyment and happiness
to the children in the cottage. 
Bear Cottage is the only
children’s hospice in NSW. 
Bear Cottage cost $10 million
to build and every cent
was donated by the community.
Each year, The Cottage needs
 $2.5 million to operate. 
Again, everything comes
from the general public. 
The families who need
Bear Cottage, stay for free…

While most of us are happy
to be ignorant of places
 such as Bear Cottage,
the families who need it,
find a welcoming home-like
environment where they are
helped to celebrate life…
to create as many
happy memories as they can…
before time runs out.

Bear Cottage - an incredible facility. 

Read more at their website.


Wednesday, August 15, 2012

A Close Shave

I was sitting in a staff meeting…
paying attention
and showing enthusiasm…
when something
grabbed my attention.
 One of the ladies at work
was going to shave her hair. 
Off. 
She’s been living with leukaemia
 for ten years and needed to
do something big
to mark the anniversary.
  I let the idea float around
 my head a while
and then headed home.
I couldn’t think of a single reason
 not to join her. 
Not one. 
My sisters couldn’t give me
a reason not to, either…
It seemed I had no choice. 
 With my baby nephew
fighting liver cancer
and boasting a cleanly shaven head….
I had plenty of reasons
 TO shave my hair. 
 So, the next morning,
I surrended my hair. 
 A few days later,
my hair was plaited
and three little sets
of fingers each cut off
a section of my hair. 


Dad snipped some off…
and I was left
with chunky hair
at the back of my head. 
 The next day,
my hair was full of plaits…
Kids from my class revelled
in the chance to cut
 their teacher’s hair…
and I was left
with scrappy, messy hair.
  Not for long. 
Clippers soon fixed that. 
 In a blur of crazy moments,
my hair was puddled
on the floor and I was wearing
a short number two style. 


It was amazing! I
 felt younger.
I felt fresh.
I felt clean.
And, I felt good
for supporting a friend
and for supporting Dexter. 
It was amazing to feel
the wind lift the tiny tufts
 of hair on the back
of my head. 
 It was incredible to feel
the water drip through
my shaven hair in the shower…
 Oh, and two flicks of a towel
and my hair was ready to go!


Now, almost a week later
and I can feel how much
my hair has grown.
I love it…
though I have to admit
to the greys
I just cannot cover!

Thursday, August 2, 2012


Oh,so many missed days!

Nevermind!

I do have a question
I would like you to ponder…
There are three toilets
in the main area of my workplace.
  There are about 35 of us
there on any particular day. 
 We are predominantly women,
with about 7 males among us.
Here is my question:
What is the likelihood
of me walking into a toilet
 immediately after someone
has left skiddies on the bowl? 
 It would seem
 that the chances
would be low….
But no. 
Remember, there are 7 men
 and about 28 women. 
At the risk of being sexist,
 I am assuming
the skiddie-leaver
is one of the guys.
 There are three toilets.
 There should be a very,
very slim chance
of me walking into
the stinky fumes l
eft from a colleague
 – and yet,
this is not the case. 
 I stumble into and out of
 these tainted cubicles
with increasing frequency.
 I no longer try
to remain polite
and tough it out
– I now walk backwards,
leaving the stinky environment
without fearing how
the culprit may feel,
should they be watching.
 How is it, that
I am drawn so often
to the stinky toilets?
And, how can I change this?

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